Friday, March 20, 2009

My man

"Thing happened with a reason." When I first meet my husband I know he is the one but I don't know why. We have been in a long distance relationship that tested our Trust, patience and Love but also leave us with question "will this relationship work?
We finally back in each other arms and work hard to make the relationship work. We face so many adjustments and situations that need to be understood and live with it. In our first year it seem a little rocky but we made it worked and now I am proud to say we have less complication.
It just seem that things are working out really well and smoothly. I cannot imagine myself without my husband. He is the best man in my life.
He is working so late this days, arriving home at almost midnight and I am waiting for him the whole day and until late night and it makes me realized how much I need and miss him. =)

Monday, March 16, 2009

Troubled Siblings

Our family relationship is one in millions "troubled siblings." I found it funny that even you are blood related but you have the bigger chances in having conflict with your family members. I know and see that there are mother and daughter issues, father and son and of course sibling rivalry or conflicts. Although we are blood related but we have different personalities, life principles and our own way of thinking and we are making our own life.
My brother and I literally have many things in common especially in our way of thinking. But my sister has her own world and her own thinking that sometimes it made me wondering with question "is she really my sister?"
What ever decisions she made in her life and the path she choose to follow, all I am hoping that she will be happy, successful, and will be contented on it. As I always remind her, it’s her life and it’s her choice. Whatever she chooses, she had to deal with it and never blame anyone else because that's her choice and she is the one making her future.
I admit I am not in good terms with her though I still feel for her but I believe that I have to let her go as a person so she can learn from her mistakes and realized that it's her journey, not mine. She had to face it by herself and stomach whatever its outcome. God Bless her.

Saturday, March 14, 2009

You have an overwhelming feeling when you connect back to your long lost friends, schoolmates and classmates, former neighbors, in short "your past acquaintance."
In most cases they would not recognized you at first after more than 10 years of lost communication. Some can be your true good friend and some remain to be just "acquaintance." And the part that I hate most is when they turn to be your "friend with benefit". Like they are exerting effort to be so close to you and be your nice friend but wait a couple months and you will see that they are just after of something.
For instance, this person happened to be one of my school batch mates and I just reconnect with him online after 14 long empty years. Of course I trust him 50%, though I never thought he will turn like that, but right after couple of months he strain the communication by asking money from me which really turned me off. He now belongs on my long list of "friends with benefit or opportunistic".
My point is, money can "strain" any good relationship or friendship, IF, you know he's not in need and its plainly opportunistic move. It's okay when he badly needs it, but they are a little well off with secured jobs. Another reason is we are not related and I just know him because he happened to be my batch mate long long time ago and we're not even close those days. Then he have the nerve to ask money from me? lets say it's a joke (I'll take it) but hello, boy oh boy, it's a turn off move, a very very BAD move. I am willing to spare CASH "IF" the person badly needs it not just taking opportunity.

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