I just reconnected with an old friend and was sad to know his love life was in real bad shape. He was into a "casual relationship". He was like a shock absorber to his friend that turn to be his GF. The issue here is the girl love's somebody else but that guy was a seminarian so that means she can't have him but that's all she wanted, to have that guy and spend the rest of her life with him. My friend save this girl who wanted to end her life years ago and he turned to fell in love with this girl hopping that she will change her mind and realized her impossible dream and end up loving him the way she loved that guy of her dreams. I think their casual relationship took 8 years or so until they end up getting married but still the girls heart was not with my friend.
How sad and traggic to know this kind of situation. All I can help is advice my long lost friend though I am sure he won't listen to me. I was so surprice to know a very strong and smart person to be cought in that kind of relationship. I been there done that and be in his situation for a while but all I can say is "Geez I am still so lucky" to give up those stupid relationships and finally found my true love.

We grow up and explore the world, we learn to dream. Then we create our future ideal life.
We try to shape our life today to achieve our future ideal life. But what comes along my way is only the 70% of what I have dreamed of and I am already almost halfway though my life. Through this journey, I've learned that you CAN NOT get all what you want in ONE PACKAGE.
If we get all what we need in one package that means our present is perfect and if today is perfect there is no need for tomorrow. I prepare to have the imperfection today so I can still experience tomorrow.

In our life journey, we have made tons of memories and experience thing that should and should not be experienced. Memories that we want to keep forever in our heart and memories that we wanted to erase and wish that it was just part of our dream that might fade away when we woke up in the morning.
Our present is the product of our past, and our future is what we are making today. Past help us became a better person today to have an awesome future. But still, there are things in my past that I wish had never happened.