Friday, March 20, 2009
"Thing happened with a reason." When I first meet my husband I know he is the one but I don't know why. We have been in a long distance relationship that tested our Trust, patience and Love but also leave us with question "will this relationship work?
We finally back in each other arms and work hard to make the relationship work. We face so many adjustments and situations that need to be understood and live with it. In our first year it seem a little rocky but we made it worked and now I am proud to say we have less complication.
It just seem that things are working out really well and smoothly. I cannot imagine myself without my husband. He is the best man in my life.
He is working so late this days, arriving home at almost midnight and I am waiting for him the whole day and until late night and it makes me realized how much I need and miss him. =)
Labels: personal
Monday, March 16, 2009
Our family relationship is one in millions "troubled siblings." I found it funny that even you are blood related but you have the bigger chances in having conflict with your family members. I know and see that there are mother and daughter issues, father and son and of course sibling rivalry or conflicts. Although we are blood related but we have different personalities, life principles and our own way of thinking and we are making our own life.
My brother and I literally have many things in common especially in our way of thinking. But my sister has her own world and her own thinking that sometimes it made me wondering with question "is she really my sister?"
What ever decisions she made in her life and the path she choose to follow, all I am hoping that she will be happy, successful, and will be contented on it. As I always remind her, it’s her life and it’s her choice. Whatever she chooses, she had to deal with it and never blame anyone else because that's her choice and she is the one making her future.
I admit I am not in good terms with her though I still feel for her but I believe that I have to let her go as a person so she can learn from her mistakes and realized that it's her journey, not mine. She had to face it by herself and stomach whatever its outcome. God Bless her.
Saturday, March 14, 2009
You have an overwhelming feeling when you connect back to your long lost friends, schoolmates and classmates, former neighbors, in short "your past acquaintance."
In most cases they would not recognized you at first after more than 10 years of lost communication. Some can be your true good friend and some remain to be just "acquaintance." And the part that I hate most is when they turn to be your "friend with benefit". Like they are exerting effort to be so close to you and be your nice friend but wait a couple months and you will see that they are just after of something.
For instance, this person happened to be one of my school batch mates and I just reconnect with him online after 14 long empty years. Of course I trust him 50%, though I never thought he will turn like that, but right after couple of months he strain the communication by asking money from me which really turned me off. He now belongs on my long list of "friends with benefit or opportunistic".
My point is, money can "strain" any good relationship or friendship, IF, you know he's not in need and its plainly opportunistic move. It's okay when he badly needs it, but they are a little well off with secured jobs. Another reason is we are not related and I just know him because he happened to be my batch mate long long time ago and we're not even close those days. Then he have the nerve to ask money from me? lets say it's a joke (I'll take it) but hello, boy oh boy, it's a turn off move, a very very BAD move. I am willing to spare CASH "IF" the person badly needs it not just taking opportunity.
Friday, November 28, 2008
I just reconnected with an old friend and was sad to know his love life was in real bad shape. He was into a "casual relationship". He was like a shock absorber to his friend that turn to be his GF. The issue here is the girl love's somebody else but that guy was a seminarian so that means she can't have him but that's all she wanted, to have that guy and spend the rest of her life with him. My friend save this girl who wanted to end her life years ago and he turned to fell in love with this girl hopping that she will change her mind and realized her impossible dream and end up loving him the way she loved that guy of her dreams. I think their casual relationship took 8 years or so until they end up getting married but still the girls heart was not with my friend.
How sad and traggic to know this kind of situation. All I can help is advice my long lost friend though I am sure he won't listen to me. I was so surprice to know a very strong and smart person to be cought in that kind of relationship. I been there done that and be in his situation for a while but all I can say is "Geez I am still so lucky" to give up those stupid relationships and finally found my true love.
Labels: friendship, personal, relationship
Thursday, November 20, 2008
We grow up and explore the world, we learn to dream. Then we create our future ideal life.
We try to shape our life today to achieve our future ideal life. But what comes along my way is only the 70% of what I have dreamed of and I am already almost halfway though my life. Through this journey, I've learned that you CAN NOT get all what you want in ONE PACKAGE.
If we get all what we need in one package that means our present is perfect and if today is perfect there is no need for tomorrow. I prepare to have the imperfection today so I can still experience tomorrow.
Labels: personal
Wednesday, November 19, 2008
In our life journey, we have made tons of memories and experience thing that should and should not be experienced. Memories that we want to keep forever in our heart and memories that we wanted to erase and wish that it was just part of our dream that might fade away when we woke up in the morning.
Our present is the product of our past, and our future is what we are making today. Past help us became a better person today to have an awesome future. But still, there are things in my past that I wish had never happened.
Friday, October 24, 2008
I love and enjoy blogging so much but lately I get frustrated because of some blogging issues. I have five blogs but only 3 are active. I monetize my three blogs which I never thought that monetizing it requires a lot of work. One is, you have to maintain a good amount of visitors, make sure your blog is linked to other valuable sites. Write a quality post, make sure you join social networks, and submit your blogs on search engines.
At first I though blogging is only writing topics that interest me, but I was wrong. But if you have the passion of writing and wants to keep on blogging you have to obey this blogging rules.





